Are you truly in love? It’s a question that often arises as we navigate the intricate terrain of relationships. 

According to Nation, early on, we often mistake fleeting emotions for genuine love. As Nat Cole poignantly sang, love in a restless world can end before it’s truly begun, leaving behind only memories of moonlight kisses fading in the warmth of the sun.

Real love, however, is cultivated over time. It’s built through years of shared experiences, loyalty, protection, affirmation, and admiration. The Bible provides profound insights into the nature of love, teaching us virtues like patience, kindness, and humility.

Patience, a cornerstone of love, allows us to weather storms without succumbing to annoyance or anxiety. Kindness, on the other hand, prevents cruelty from corroding relationships, fostering empathy and understanding instead.

Envy, pride, and dishonour have no place in genuine love. Envy breeds resentment and belittlement, while pride and dishonour tarnish the bonds of affection and respect.

Love is selfless, forgiving, and steadfast. It doesn’t seek recognition or hold grudges but rejoices in truth and protects trusts, and hopes unconditionally.

In the journey of love, self-love is crucial. It enables us to give and receive love authentically, without selfish motives or hidden agendas.

So, this Valentine’s Day, let’s reflect on the true essence of love. It’s not just about grand gestures or fleeting emotions but about the everyday acts of kindness, understanding, and unwavering commitment that sustain relationships for a lifetime.